The SharedChat blog

Notes on arguing better, together.

Straight answers about sharing AI chats, settling things fairly, and the apps that promise to help.

Guide

How to Stop Having the Same Argument With Your Partner

Some couple arguments come back no matter what. How to handle the one in front of you, and what changes when both people get heard before anyone decides.

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Parenting

What age should a kid get a phone? How to decide it together

Most kids have one by 12. Pediatricians say readiness, not age. A way for two parents to land on one answer without a fight.

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Guide

How to share a chat with someone (and talk about it together)

Sharing a link to a transcript isn't the same as sharing a conversation. Here's the difference, and how to do both.

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Explainer

Why ChatGPT always takes your side in an argument

It's not being nice. It only has your version. Therapists are noticing, and there's a simple fix.

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How-to

How to use AI to settle an argument fairly

Most "who's right" apps have you type both sides into one phone. That's not a conversation. Here's what works.

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Roundup

The best co-parenting apps in 2026, and the one thing none of them do

OurFamilyWizard, TalkingParents, Kidtime and more, with real prices. Plus the gap they all share.

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Comparison

Group chat with AI: ChatGPT vs. Poe vs. SharedChat

ChatGPT tried it, Poe still runs it, and SharedChat is built around it. What each one is for, and what to pick.

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Research

Can AI help your relationship? What 1,000 married people said

Nearly half have already tried. Most did it alone. What the numbers say about doing it together.

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Scripts

How to text your co-parent without starting a fight (with scripts)

The BIFF rule, five copy-and-paste messages for the situations that come up every month, and why the calm version is hard at 9 p.m.

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Explainer

Is it okay to use AI for relationship advice?

Yes, with two conditions most people are breaking: not in secret, and not one-sided.

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Explainer

Is AI parenting advice safe? Where it helps and where it's dangerous

The three things a trustworthy answer always includes, and the risk nobody mentions.

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How-to

How to plan a group trip with AI (and end the 200-message thread)

Get the real budgets on the record, let it pick, make it show the math.

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Guide

AI for roommates: chores, rent, guests and the passive-aggressive note

A neutral voice that says the thing nobody wants to be the one to say.

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Fun

The best way to settle a bet with AI (screenshots don't count)

Same AI, same room, both people. Plus three classics settled with sources.

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